Do you have a friend who has no job and not even interested in getting one? Perhaps a friend who is extremely lazy or one who is not willing to step out of the comfort zone.
If so then it’s confirmed. You have a friend who is a loser. Those who love to party day and night, purely focuses on girls or men, can highly be considered as losers.
Hanging out with these people may be fun at the start but as time passes by, you’ll see how extremely annoying they could get. So how can you get rid of these losers?
Find better people
The initial step towards getting rid of losers is to drift away from them slowly. This can be done if they’ll see you having fun with your new-found friends. Hang out with those who know what they want to achieve in life, and those who are mature mentally emotionally and even spiritually.
This may not have any effects on the losers, but this is just the first step.
Lessen the time you hang out with them
Now you have new and better friends, it’s time to make the second step. Start creating distance with your loser friends.
If they want to eat with you in the cafeteria, tell them that you’ll be eating at another table. If they want to hang out with you after class, tell them that you will have a group study with others.
Cut the communication
This may sound rude, but cutting your communication with your loser friends will be an effective way to let them know that you don’t want to hang out with them. Erase their mobile number, emails and delete them in your Facebook and Twitter accounts.
This way, it will be clear and concise that you do not want to hang out with them anymore.
With all the changes you did, expect these losers to confront you about it. This is expected if he/she is a close friend. Although a loser, you have to ensure that you don’t treat him/her in a rude way.
If he’ll approach you and ask what’s with all the changes, give him a sensible answer and do not tell him directly that he’s a loser and you don’t want to hang out with him. Simply explain his characteristics that annoy you and make it clear that you’re not mad.
End things clearly
The last step towards getting rid of a loser is ending your friendship in a clear way. Be sure that you’re not mad at each other and that the reason for parting ways is clear to your friend.
If you want to keep your relationship with your loser friend, this can be something that’s temporary, just until your friend is ready to beat the loser side of him/her.
You cannot erase the fact that losers will always be there. As much as you want to surround yourself with good people, there will come a point when you’ll meet a loser. When this time comes, that’s also the right time to apply these helpful tips.