Lacking of social confidence can be one of the problems that we encounter in our life. Though it can come to us in times that we don’t expect, it doesn’t necessarily mean that we have to live with it for the rest of our lives. To be comfortable on being with different kinds of people, you need to keep a lot of things in mind. Here are some things that you have to remember to overcome this kind of problem:
All people have their own lives
If you want to do something, just go ahead and do it. If you want to say something that you think won’t hurt anyone, spill it out. Don’t hesitate to do the things that you want to do just because of considering what other people might be thinking. If you are sure that no one would be hurt or be offended of what you are about to do, leave all the worries and get it done. Remove the “what if” mentality.
Think that you can do better
If you think that someone can do a better job than you, it will guarantee no positive outcome. People excel in different kinds of things and you are one of those. If you’ve thought about it negatively, fight it away with a “so what?” following with “I can do this, I can do that and I’m the greatest when it comes to”.
People meet the same kind of problems
Have you ever seen someone who looks so confident which makes you think that he’s perfect, he looks intelligent, he seems to be financially stable and it appeared like he’s got no problem at all? Stop your enviousness and thinking about it like this it is very impossible. Indeed, there are a lot of people who might look strong and confident but if you only knew them, you’ll find out that they have the same worries as you are, or even worse. Try to make friends with this kind of people and see it for yourself.
People think that money is fuel, a stepping stone, a reinforcement army or a vitamin. If you think about it this way, there is nothing wrong with that. So strive on having a lot of savings and don’t be afraid to jump in a group of people, since you are keeping something that they might not have.
If you fail at something, don’t let it sink into you. It is fine to have mistakes and to fail sometimes as long as you take it as an opportunity to become better. Practice thinking the above thoughts and love yourself. Believe that you can do anything and that you always belong.